Over analyzing

 

As soon as that girl on TV said "pizza" I was like, "I want pizza!  Shoot, why'd she have to say pizza?  Now I really want some pizza!"

over analyzing

"Mary Mary quite contrary, we get board so we get married..." So true.  I think I was board.  I know I was board.  I'm bored now.  How do you spell it?  Which one is it English Language???  It seems to be B-O-R-E-D but they're both acceptable to me!  My opinion is the only one that matters!  Not really.

anyways...back to over analyzing...i'm going to over analyze a song.

If you ain't got two kids by 21,
You're probably gonna die alone
At least that's what tradition told you

I'm thinking if you have two kids by 21 you got what you were looking for young and got knocked up on your wedding night.  Or...they're probably both accidents.  What?! 

And it don't matter if you don't believe,
Come Sunday morning you best be there
In the front row, like you're s'posed toSometimes I do wonder why I'm at church.  Though I know I go to hear something helpful.  On the days where the sermon is lackluster is definitely the days I wonder why I'm there.  But you never know unless you go.  Sometimes it's more about the church family.  I'm sure what I believe is a little more off of the beaten path than them older folks in the pews around me.

Same hurt in every heart
Same trailer, different parkEveryone will go through similar experiences.  We aren't alone and we shouldn't think we are.  The best thing about surrounding yourself with good people is the awesome advice you get.  Sometimes it's surprising what you find out about someone when you're the vulnerable one.  Walls come down.

Mamas hooked on Mary Kay
Brothers hooked on Mary Jane
And Daddies hooked on Mary two doors down

Don't cake your face with make-up.  Get hooked on something healthy, not something that makes someone question who the real you is.  Don't f#$@ around with other people if you're in a relationship.  If you want to experiment, ask your partner first.  If you aren't getting what you need out of the relationship, tell them.  Secrets are for people afraid to lose everything. 

Mary Mary quite contrary,
We get bored so we get married
And just like dust we settle in this town
On this broken merry go 'round and 'round and 'round we go,
Where it stops nobody knows,
And it ain't slowin' down, this merry go 'round

If you feel like getting married would help things...it wont.  If you feel like getting married will cure anything at all, you're wrong.  DO NOT SETTLE!  The world is full of people and there's someone out there made for you.  It might take time for your paths to cross, so practice patience and practice the things you love.  I like to say LIFE IS SHORT, BUT LONG ENOUGH TO LIVE.  Life is on a strict schedule (as in, tomorrow you will be one day older...you can't lose a day) , it's up to you to make the most of every day.

We think the first time's good enough,
So we hold on to high school love,
Say we won't end up like our parents

My parents are fine and I didn't have a high school love.  If you have to hold on then it's probably not right for you.  You need someone that will be by your side because they want to be there and because you want them to be there in every aspect.  Your story will not be your parents so don't bother trying to follow in any ones footsteps.  Make your own path.

Tiny little boxes in a row,
Ain't what you want it's what you know,
Just happy in the shoes you're wearin'

I'm not happy in the shoes I'm wearing, but mainly because I'm still a bit blinded by heart break.  I wonder if there are people out there that really aren't meant to be together but they have never had the guts to point out their weakness so they died a lie?  Does that make sense?  When you're afraid to lose all you have ever known it makes you vulnerable to never knowing. 

Same checks we're always cashin'
To buy a little more distraction

I get it...Mama paints her face and brother gets high and daddy finds new means...they're cashing into things that help them ignore all the crap that goes on around them.  Life is hard...accept those words by fighting against them!  It's like the saying "Life isn't fair" but then telling your kid to do something about it.

Mary Mary quite contrary
We're so bored until we're buried
And just like dust we settle in this town
On this broken merry go 'round
Merry go 'round

Please don't be bored.  Plant a garden.  Wash your car.  Ya know, pay attention to detail.  Write someone a letter and send it snail mail style.  Train for a marathon.  Go see a movie by yourself  (because sometimes independence is the first step to succeeding).

Jack and Jill went up the hill,
Jack burned out on booze and pills,
And Mary had a little lamb,
Mary just don't give a damn no morePlease give a damn.  Sometimes it takes baby steps to get to where you want to be.  Just don't repeat those baby steps over and over again or you'll get stuck.  Set up your end goal to be possible.  After that, earn money, save money, and use those wonderful advice giving people to fuel your fire.